This has been a diaper-free zone (for preschoolers) since April 26.
That is about three months of hell. Dan calls this "The Lost Summer"
because we can't go places or enjoy events because we have a little girl
who holds in pee and poop to the extreme and WILL NOT use any other potty.
We did see a therapist in May. We really liked her! She suggested the Kazdin method for behavior change. We've been using this method for the past 6 weeks. Within that time, has been a teensy bit of progress.
She will go in the morning when she gets up and sometimes she will initiate (she gets a Skittle if it is her idea). And for the past several days she has initiated the next pee of the day, which comes at 3:30. Not sure at what time she starts to feel like she has to go, but that's when she'll let it out. And sometimes she will not initiate. And sometimes that next pee of the day comes at 6:00pm. Seriously, kid, that's ten hours.
Annique had to see the gastroenterologist at Children's Mercy for a separate issue. While there, we discussed potty training. She referred us to the BRICK clinic. (Bowel Retraining in Constipated Kids) I'm excited to work with this clinic. All they do is help kids who have potty training issues. A doctor and a child psychologist work with the family to resolve the issue. Children's Mercy is amazing! Unfortunately, everyone thinks it is amazing too, because we have to wait until September 11 to get in.
So that is where we are- hanging in there with the status quo until September. Thanks to those who keep checking in. I sure hope we'll have something to celebrate soon!
I know she's one, but I'm still going to call her my sweet baby, ok?
The fact that she doesn't have many teeth makes me feel I can stretch the baby phase a little longer.
As an update to this post, Camille did qualify for help from Infant and Toddler Servies of Johnson County. And, even better, the same physical therapist that worked with Annique is working with Camille--even though we moved out of her district! We love Miss Trina!
The girl is sitting up independently now! (After this picture was taken, she proceeded to STACK those!)
And pulling herself up on everything...
And has even taken an adventurous step or two into the world of cruising.
She loved her birthday party with family. She got her own cupcake with dairy-free icing!
She didn't make too big of a mess with it, but she did enjoy it!
Camille loves these puppets. She will pick one up and drag it across her head so it will tickle her or she will bring it to me so I can get her with it.
We also brought back an old toy of Annique's that had been in hiding since we staged the old house. We gave it to Camille. We can do that, right? She loves this toy.
Too bad she can never play with it by herself. She always has some "help" from big sister. Both girls get a lot of use out of this one.
We're so blessed to have so many friends and family who love our sweet Camille!
- Head Size 17 1/2 inches - 45th percentile <-- Not as small!
- Weight 18 pounds 4oz - 10th percentile <-- Yay! Weight gain!
- Height 30 inches- 75th percentile <-- Still tall.
My sweet 'Nique (pronounced Nee-kee) is four!
She's only been looking forward to her birthday since my birthday, which was back in January.
We celebrated Annique's birthday several different ways this year since it fell on Easter. We had the Gras party complete with streamers, balloons (as requested), a birthday dinner with all her favorites (and Camille's too, apparently--that baby at a ton!), and a cake that I made (she requested a cake that her parents made, but close enough).
Grandpa Bade and Bebe came by to give her birthday presents too. Then we took a trip to Peachwave for some non-dairy frozen yogurt. She's big on asking if things are non-dairy now.
Everyone sang to her at the Easter celebration and she wore her 4 crown to church.
She also got to play with her best friend (and former neighbor), Charlotte at the Johnson County Museum.
Likes- Entertaining Camille, reading, playing outside, wearing sunglasses, walks to the park (where she always plays on the toddler park for a few minutes first, then heads to the other part), magnadoodle, The Talking Words Factory DVD and the Math Adventures to the Moon DVD, drawing with chalk on the driveway.
Dislikes- washing hair, failing at something, not knowing an answer or giving the wrong one. We think we're dealing some perfectionism (common in gifted kids, I've read). We are working on laughing at yourself, and learning that everyone makes mistakes-they are part of life. We are TRYING to turn the praise dial down and instead say things like, "You must be so proud of yourself!" We'd love her to have confidence in herself instead of needing praise from others to feel good. So far, it has been very tough for her to get this.
Social Skills- We love how she can tell us about her day. She is able to communicate stories and happenings pretty well, though sometimes gets confused about when it took place. (Almost always "yesterday" or "last time.") If an adult pays attention to her, she will try to tell them all kinds of things. To a random lady at Target commenting on Camille's red hair, "My Daddy is 33!" She is not big into "Why?" at this point. Instead it is, "What happens if?"
Physical Skills- We are working on buttoning and zipping. She is writing letters and it is fun to see her art include characters with speech bubbles and words she writes in there. She is starting to actually coast on her strider bike instead of walking it everywhere. Maybe she'll get it by this summer.
Any elephant and piggie book (she loves Mo Willems)!
And one from grandma's house:
It is exciting to have her asking questions about where God is and about prayer. Parenting a child in the faith takes on a whole new meaning when she reaches a place developmentally where she can think about what she's learning on her own and start communicating her questions.
Potty training is still underway. Funny how she never has to go and all that dancing and squirming is not because she needs to use the potty. ;o) This task is quite a mountain climb. Small steps are being taken though, and with this kid that is SO encouraging!
Stats- 40 inches tall (55th percentile); 33 pounds (50th percentile)
I was able to get out with the girls a bit last week and found two great organizing items to share with you.
First, I love the Target's Dollar Spot. You can always find storage items there. That is where I found this hexagonal tray. Trays are great for gathering things together that have to sit out on a counter.
(Careful when picking one out--lots of the corners are chipped or broken!) I bought two. The other one corrals my kitchen sink items (sink plugs, hand soap, lotion, etc.) The danger of the Target Dollar Spot (or anywhere) is buying a storage container becaue it is cute or a great deal. If you buy a container and do not have a use for it, then it becomes clutter (aka part of the problem). Now you have to store it/ hope you find it/ remember you have it when something comes along for which you can use it. That is why I'll probably head back with this item.
Only $3, but it does not work in the space I originally wanted to use it. I'm looking out for another use, but nothing so far.
My other quick fix was this jewelry organizer at Kohls.
On sale for $12, it is acutally an egg holder. I was looking for cute earring and ring storage for a drawer. They have other colors, but I felt white would help me identify what I needed. Actually, there were lots of fun ceramic items at Kohl's. I also liked the berry box but since I didn't have a use for it, it stayed.
We are closing up National Clutter Awareness Week today. As one with an interest in decluttering and organizing, I thought I'd bring it to your attention. You're probably saying, "What is special about this week? I am already aware of my clutter." Honestly, nothing. A few blogs stated, "National Clutter Awareness Week is the perfect time to start spring cleaning and organizing!"
Really? Are you thinking, "I am so annoyed with this stupid junk drawer. But, I'll wait until that special week to clean it out." Um, no. If you are like me, you will live alongside your clutter until it hampers your ability to function and you get frustrated with it. But of course, at that exact moment of frustration, you don't have time to organize your junk drawer. You were just looking for batteries for your kid's electronic something-or-other on your way out the door.
If you find yourself in this scenario, may I make a suggestion? Write on a post-it note, "Organize junk drawer" and put it on your computer. Then when you sit down to cruise the internet, you will see it and think, "Maybe cleaning out that junk drawer will be more beneficial to me than finding out what Full House character I am." (Jesse Katsopolis). If you're really serious about it, write it on your calendar for a specific day you know you will have a few minutes to devote to the task. Also, take a picture of your junk drawer before you tackle it and you can be a part of The Junk Drawer Project. Very fascinating.
Having a space that is clean and free of clutter is nice. It helps you to relax in a way you didn't even know you were tense. That is why I love organizing!
I am running out of titles for these. I think I will pick one name and just keep adding roman numerals after it. Vote on your favorite below!
And I still have the brownies to go! When they come out of the oven (smelling pretty much awesome), they look a bit like this...
But wait, when you cut them you get this...
Yes and yes. I cut these in small pieces because they were so rich. I also cut them up and put them on a plate so no one knew I had one or two before I gave them away. ;o)
Pesto Chicken Pizza
Garlic Pesto Chicken with Tomato Cream Penne
Cracker Barrel Chicken Tenders
This was created in the old house. It was actually the last card I made there. It is the thank you card for the gifts and meals people blessed us with when Camille was born. Someone did ask, so I will clarify that yes, that is my handwriting and not a stamp.
My mom has a wonderful crafting area too. She was the one who inspired me to make my own cards. I made a birthday card for my sister-in-law over there while we were between houses.
This is the first card created in my new craft space. I even pulled out the Cuttlebug (so I could use my new embossing folder, of course). It is a wedding card that still needs to be sent, actually. :o) It is also my first experiment with watercolor pencils. I made a few of those hearts and then incorporated them into several different designs:
Water color pencil takes a bit of getting used to. I got some watercolor paper so it wont warp when I go over it several times with water.
Then, a birthday card for my mother-in-law:
Clearly I'm still trying to find a great area to take pictures of my cards!
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